Real Wedding – Alex and Derek

Real Wedding Feature – Alex & Derek at Clontarf Castle

The Meeting That Started It All

Alex and Derek’s love story began unexpectedly when Alex was dog-sitting Mozart, a white Labrador. Their first encounter around the corner from Derek’s place in Los Angeles sparked an instant connection. Despite the distance and LA’s notorious traffic, they embarked on a journey of love that led to countless conversations, a spontaneous trip to Hawaii, and a shared life of exploration and joy.

The Engagement: A Blend of Romance and Unforeseen Challenges

Derek’s proposal to Alex was meticulously planned during a work trip, with the stunning backdrop of Hong Kong’s Caprice restaurant. However, their plans nearly derailed when their Labrador, Milo, chewed up their passports. After a frantic rush for replacements, the proposal went ahead as planned, culminating in a joyous ‘yes’ amidst jet lag and fine wine.

Wedding Preparations in Ireland: A Homage to Heritage and Support

Choosing Ireland as their wedding destination held special significance for both. Derek’s Irish roots and Alex’s Ukrainian heritage, coupled with Ireland’s support during the war, made it a meaningful location. Their venue selection focused on convenience for international guests and led them to Clontarf Castle, a historic site near Dublin, perfect for their intimate celebration.

Planning a Unique Wedding

Their wedding planning embraced the freedom to create a celebration that reflected their personalities. From finding a humanist celebrant, Connie Keogh, to crafting a non-traditional ceremony, every element was thoughtfully chosen. They prioritised a skilled photographer, Daniel (DK Photo), for authentic representation and organised pre-wedding activities for their diverse international guests.

The Attire: A Fusion of Cultures

Derek’s attire included a kilt outfit in family tartans, while Alex’s ensemble, created by a Ukrainian stylist and designer, blended traditional and modern elements. This attire not only represented their individual cultures but also symbolised the union of their worlds.

The Wedding Day: A Tapestry of Love and Laughter

The wedding day was filled with personal touches, from the mini spa routine to the emotional ceremony. Guests were welcomed with shots and a keyboard player, setting a tone of warmth and intimacy. The ceremony included readings, a custom poem, and a handfasting ritual, all encapsulating Alex and Derek’s love story. The reception was a blend of heartfelt toasts, exquisite dining, and lively entertainment, with the Bentley Boys ensuring a packed dance floor.

Unique Touches: A Celebration of Personalities and Cultures

Their wedding included thoughtful details like custom tote bags for guests, a digital wedding app, and a travel-themed cake by Creative Cakes. They also incorporated elements reflecting their backgrounds, such as South African proteas and Ukrainian wheat stems in the floral design and cocktails inspired by their heritage.

The Honeymoon: A Timeless Romance in Paris

Post-wedding, Alex and Derek chose Paris for a mini-honeymoon, a classic romantic destination, saving a longer trip to St. Barts for later in the year.

Reflections and Advice: Cherishing the Moment and Being True to Oneself

If they could do it all over again, they would extend the time with the band and consider the logistics for their traveling guests more thoroughly. Their advice to others is to break conventions, be authentic, and choose a wedding planner who truly understands your vision.